We’re going to talk about psoriasis are we? What a bitch of a condition.
You know, even before I developed psoriasis I always had super sensitive, temperamental skin. I’m talking shower gel, make-up, washing powder even the bloody weather causes me issues. I spent my 18th birthday with a striking resemblance to Mr Blobby… That’s a story for another day.
My skin is so pale it may as well be transparent, I also have deep red lips, the snow white rhyme is an accurate description of my appearance. Remember the rhyme? “Skin as white as snow, lips as red as a rose”. Yeah, that one. I can assure you it doesn’t look anywhere near as a good in real life as they led you to believe. You look like a flipping corpse. Although if I’m honest, most of my issues look wise could just be the unfortunate shape of my face.
When I first developed psoriasis I had a bit of an advantage. Purely because I already knew a lot about psoriasis as quite a few of my family members also suffer. On the other hand, my knowledge about psoriasis also had a negative side. I already knew what it was, meaning I didn’t have the fear of the unknown but, I was also terrified because I knew what an arsehole psoriasis is.
Bare in mind when I said other members of my family also suffer I meant they REALLY suffer. As in head to toe, I don’t think there is a psoriasis free patch anywhere.
One of the hardest things to overcome with a psoriasis diagnosis is the fact that it’s seriously in your face. That’s one thing you learn about psoriasis pretty damn quickly. It’s conceited as fuck. It likes to show itself off like “look at me I’m here wooo”.
Mentally? it’s a fucker to come to terms with. My self-confidence took a huge nosedive when those scales started to erupt on my already shit skin. I’m going to hit you with a hard truth about psoriasis now, get it over and done with quick, like ripping off a band-aid. There is currently no known cure for this condition.
There are ways to get the condition into remission but completely curing it? Not a chance. Unfortunately, it’s just not possible right now. Some believe that psoriasis going into remission is a myth. Fortunately, I can debunk that one as my own psoriasis is currently in remission. I will insert a photo below.
As you can see, it isn’t a myth, although it is confusing. The thing about psoriasis is, in remission it doesn’t completely vanish. The red blotch (so to speak) tends to stay visible. It’s the dry flakiness (the scale) and the irritation it causes that goes into remission.
What is psoriasis and what are psoriasis symptoms?
Psoriasis is a skin disease. It causes really itchy red patches, scales if you will, on your skin. It’s crusty and sore looking. Sounds sexy huh? It’s pretty common to get it on your knees elbows and your scalp but essentially it can make an appearance anywhere on your body. It’s not sexist or ageist it picks on anyone at any time of their life, equality and all that.
It’s a chronic condition and some get it worse than others. Like I said earlier I have a relation whose life is dramatically affected by psoriasis, to the point where they require regular treatment at a London hospital. That fact always puts my issue’s with the condition into perspective for me.
Can you catch psoriasis? No. I do know that sufferers of psoriasis have been avoided and even abused due to the visible signs of the illness. Mostly due to the wrong assumption that they are carrying some kind of catch-able disease. Feel free to play a joke on these people. Claiming to have a dose of the recently revived plague tends to be my favourite. Just for the record as far as I’m aware the plague has not returned. If it has/does I can probably let you know soon as let’s be honest I’ll be the jinx who catches it first.
It’s pretty bloody understandable that stupid people and sheer ignorance about psoriasis does make it more difficult to come to terms with. Let’s not beat around the bush, the only thing worse than a fool is an uneducated fool. This is why raising awareness about psoriasis is so damn important. It needs to become common knowledge. If people already know about psoriasis it will prevent sufferers from going through the pain of being rejected and ridiculed by others.
To sum it up though, it’s pretty normal to find yourself struggling to come to terms with a psoriasis diagnosis.
Tips for coping with psoriasis
I am going to share with you a few of the strategies that helped me to mentally come to terms with becoming a sufferer of this condition.
- First and foremost, don’t hide it. When you are self-conscious about something you can become really focused on keeping it hidden. Not only does it draw more attention to what you are trying to hide, but it will also make the problem escalate in your mind. Stress can aggravate psoriasis and actually cause it to get worse and spread, causing your self-esteem to go on a downward spiral. Being open and honest about psoriasis will raise awareness. It gives others the chance to be more understanding and supportive as opposed to stupid and cruel.
- Actively talk to others. If you don’t personally know anyone who suffers from psoriasis you can find yourself feeling alienated and alone. Finding others who also have the condition helps you to stay grounded and remember it’s not that uncommon. It can really help to know others have had the same experiences as you. Talking about how you feel and getting those emotions off your chest can really help. Look for specific forums and Facebook groups. If you are already joined to a forum, whether its health-related or not, start a thread. Not only will you feel comfortable around the regulars, but they will also know you and want to help you. You may even find others who are suffering in silence. We can all be freaks together.
- Get sexy. Bit of an unusual recommendation but it really does work. You look good you feel good. Getting all dressed up, maybe get some nice photo’s, whatever it takes to make you feel sexy. Your self-confidence has a huge impact on how you feel about psoriasis. When you are happy and confident with the way you look it’s much easier to overlook what you see as your ‘flaws’.
- Distraction. When something causes us to feel negative emotions such as pain or stress it’s very easy to let those feelings consume you. They slowly start to pop into your head when you least expect it until your entire life is spent obsessing. It’s important to find something to do to give your mind a break. Watch a film with a gripping storyline that will have you hooked. Or maybe do something artistic like a painting. When I really get stuck into a piece of art, hours can go by without me even realising.
Everything I am suggesting to you are all techniques I have personally used. Each one has only made the list because it has genuinely helped me. A psoriasis diagnosis isn’t easy to accept and even harder to come to terms with. Don’t be too hard on yourself if you find you are struggling with it.
Hopefully, you will start to come to terms with the illness sooner rather than later. But struggling is nothing to be ashamed of. even I still have days where I have a little crumble over it. Never be afraid to reach out to your doctor about psoriasis. They are there to help you, feeling down can always escalate into something serious if you let it. So always reach out for help when it is needed.
I often update my articles so if you have any other tips or information about psoriasis that has helped you please do let me know in the comments so I can add it in.